TrishE is a Language Lab Director, Teacher, Instructional Technologist, Doctoral Student, Wife, Daughter, Granddaughter, Aunt, Friend… Gardener, Gadget-freak, Knitter, Weaver, Dog-and-cat-lover …Christian…Can just one lifetime be long enough?
I’m 40 years old, and I’ve only just now realized that I spent the best years my 30’s curled up in a little sad ball and trying desperately to overcome my infertility. Well, NO MORE!
I’m happily married to a gorgeous and musically-talented man who adores me (and rightfully so!). I have a great family, full of eccentric Southerners, the most amazing grandparents ever, crazy and delightful aunts, a mother who has found her calling as a professional worrier and co-conspirator, a stoic ex-military dad who can do just about anything, three clever cats, and a loving mixed-bred dog named Abby. A passel of amazing and talented friends rounds out the collection of individuals who are dear to my heart.
Since emerging from the darkness of my mid-thirties, I’ve rediscovered my faith, enrolled in a doctoral program in Instructional Technology, relocated closer to my family, and taught myself many new skills, such as gardening, canning, and knitting. (I half-jokingly refer to these as the skills I’ll need when I move onto the survivalist compound following the post-catastrophic-electromagnetic-pulse disaster. Really, I’m at least half-joking….)
I enjoy spending hours cooking up half-baked crazy-ambitious dreams that usually involve rescuing orphans and oppressed child-laborers around the world, and almost always would require a complete upheaval in my life to pull them off.
But I’m an Army-brat: I thrive on upheaval!
Thanks for the comment Trish!
I don’t “do” collards, but I’m sure I will have to learn to cook them one day, right?
God Bless,
Erica
Hi and Thanks for stoppin by my blog!! I really appreciate the comment
I just want you to know from experience, that you have not wasted the “best” years of your life. I’m not quite old enough to be your mom, but far enough ahead of you to be able to say that when you hit your mid forties, you will feel like you are in the prime of your life. With your new goals and interests, you are already headed in that direction. While infertility is a sad thing, to be mourned just like the loss of a child, you seem to have gotten over that mountain and can now explore and enjoy the things waiting for you in the valley below. And grief was a necessary path over that mountain. So, welcome to the Valley of New Life, Trish, and many blessings to you as you prepare for a great mid-life experience!
Wendy
The years in my 40s were better than the 30s. Getting up and going can be lots of fun.
Follow those wild rabbits of ideas off into new interesting experiences.
The road you are on is definitely worth the journey! Take it from someone who has experienced many of the same touchpoints – and is about 20 years ahead of you – the sense of self-fulfillment is priceless and is surpassed only by the incomparable joy you’ll feel as you share your gifts with others.
I always knew you were destined for greatness
Do you still play piano?